What is squirting?
In this article we’ll explain a step-by-step guide on how to squirt, but before, what is squirting exactly ?
Squirting is when the fluid in the bladder release, either during an orgasm or not. Most of the time it involves G-spot stimulation.
Porn give a false idea of what it will look like. It probably won’t be a stream of liquid, but more a drip of fluid. In many cases, you don’t even notice until you see the wet spot under you. The fluid can be clear or milky. The volume depend on each woman. It can feel like you peed yourself.
How to squirt – be super aroused
Be able to experience squirting is not impossible. For some women it will come naturally but for the others you will have to learn. But yes, you could make yourself squirt during sex; and the fell-good sensations is pretty much guaranteed
Here’s exactly how to make yourself (or someone) squirt.
Why trying to make yourself squirt ?
It seems that most of the women who have experienced squirting said that it improved their sex lives. The urethra is very sensitive because it has all these nerves. So if you have this rush of fluid going through and at the same time you’re having an orgasm, it can be the best experience.
But before you start trying to get your juices flowing, you need to remember the most important thing — squirting is not a sign of “good sex” or of successful masturbation. While some bodies find it really easy to squirt, some can’t — and both are totally normal.
How to squirt : Get ready
Things may get a little messy when squirting, so you should prepare if you don’t want to wet your sheets.
You need to be relaxed, so get rid of all the tension in your body, and leave yourself plenty of time. In order to squirt, a woman needs to feel safe and let herself go.
Be well hydrated
It is not scientifically proved or anything, but overall staying hydrated is better for sexual activity because it is good for your health. Some people say that hydration facilitates sexual response and orgasm.
Take your time
It can take some time, so have patience with your body. For most women sex start in the brain, don’t forget that, that’s mean you can start mental preparation earlier in the day (imagination, dirty talk…)
Be super aroused
To reach squirting, the vagina and vulva need to be at max capacity. When aroused it’ll naturally get wet, the clitoris and labia swell, and everything become more sensitive.
It also helps if you took your time before getting to the point to try squirting. Having good sex or an erotic massage.
Start with the clit
Stimulate your clitoris first will bring blood into the area and get your G-spot ready.
A good toy would be a rabbit vibrator, which provide dual vibrating stimulation for the G-spot internally and the clitoral head externally. Suction toys are good ones too.
To squirt, pressure the G-spot
Once you are turned on, insert two fingers inside the vagina and rub your G-spot. You can find it by feeling a small ridged area along your vaginal wall.
Remember it will take some time so stay patient.
There is no consensus as to why G-spot stimulation lead to squirting, but for many people who squirt, this does seem to be the common trigger
With manual stimulation you need to insert two fingers into the vagina and apply pressure rather than friction, to the front wall of the vagina, near the stomach.
Stimulate the G-spot alone is rarely enough, so that’s why you’ll also want some stimulation to the clitoris.
Find your G-spot
Use a toy
There are and excellent way to experience your squirting potential. The curved toys are very good for the G-spot. You can also try a clit-sucking toy.
If you feel like you are going to pee when you’re close to reaching orgasm, it is normal. It is just a sensation. And even if pee come out it doesn’t really matter, don’t stress. Sex involve a lot of fluid so …
Control your pelvic floor muscles
When the sensation start to build and you fell like you have to pee, it’s time to use your pelvic floor muscles. Push out as if you are pushing out to pee. It’s not that simple but with practice it will come.