Massage is an ancient practice that has been used for centuries to relieve pain, reduce stress, and promote relaxation. While many people enjoy receiving a good erotic massage, not everyone knows how to give one. In this article, we will cover the basics of how to give a girl a good erotic massage that will leave your partner feeling relaxed and aroused.
Create an ambiance
The first step to giving a girl a good erotic massage is creating a relaxing environment. You should make sure the room is clean, and use soft lighting to create a calm atmosphere. Play some music and use scented candles or essential oils to fill the room with a pleasant aroma.
Light is very important, choose a warm touch to light the room.
Have your partner disrobe and lie face-down on a bed. They can fully or partially cover up with a sheet if they’re feeling shy.
Choose the right technique
Although there are hundreds of massage techniques, the answer on this point is simple, no matter the technique. As long as you’re pleasing your partner.
Of course, you should start gently on any parts you touch, always being attentive to the other person’s body. The key here is to know each other, to touch her the way she likes to be touched, and to use all parts of your body to massage her. Both hands of course, but also your belly, your legs, depending on how you’re positioned, on top or on the side. From head to toe there are many places that can provide pleasure.
When you massage the neck, running your fingers through her hair, playing with her ears, you have to be creative.
For at least the first 20 minutes of the erotic massage, it should simply look like a regular massage. Don’t head straight to your partner’s erogenous zones. You should help them relax and move towards their sensitive areas slowly. That way, by the time you work your way down to your partner’s genitals, they’re in a physical and mental space to fully receive you.
Best Massage Techniques to give a girl an erotic massage
It doesn’t matter which body part you are focussing on, you should be mindful of the pressure you are exerting and check if your partner likes what you are doing. You can ask whispering, “How does this feel?”
Light, soft touches gives a feeling of care and protection to your partner. Putting more pressure give them a feeling of security. Using your lips to caress their skin can give your fingers a quick rest and can be arousing too.
Use gentle, lingering touches to massage the head and face. They are very sensitive zones. If you’re face-to-face, don’t be shy of a little eye contact. This assures your partner that you are interested in their pleasure and focused on them.
Starting from under the ears you can gently slide down to the neck and shoulder.
Deep strokes using your thumbs and fingers along the neckline and shoulders are very effective for tension release.
The hands and arms are very sensitive, especially the center of the palm or the tip of the fingers. You can slowly massage with your finger or even your lips. if you feel like it, sucking your partner’s finger feels very good also.
When you are focusing on the back, the best position is to be seated on your partner’s ass or upper legs.
With long, firm strokes from their shoulders, down their back, before using your fingernails or fingertips to lightly caress their sides on your way back up. This can send delicious tingles up their spine.
Just explore slowly
Test out different strokes and pressure levels to see which work best for the both of you.
You can tease her by going on the ass, slowly, and play with the buttock crease.
Some partners don’t like having their feet touched, so before pressing your way into that area, ask permission first. Some areas of the legs, like the inner thighs and the backs of knees, are super sensitive to sensual touch, so explore these areas and see how your partner responds.
The legs and feet are very sensitives areas. Some people don’t even like to be touched there. So explore and see how your partner react.
The inner thighs or the back of the knees can feel very good if you treat them with care.
Make some noise (if you want)
When you give a girl an erotic massage, it’s not all about the touch.
A massage doesn’t necessarily happen in silence. Both you and your partner can express what you’re feeling aloud, through words or sounds.
You can tell her if you find her beautiful while looking at her back, you can even be specific by describing what you like when you massage her. You can also express it through small sounds that will make the massage more erotic.
Start teasing
After you’ve massaged their neck, their back etc., it’s time to move on to more erotic stuff. But it is important to be patient, at this point you should have given your partner a full body massage.
Then you can start teasing her. You can get close to touching your partner’s erogenous zones without actually touching them. Don’t go straight for the vagina, massage her thigh, close to the pelvis etc. Same with the nipples, massage around the breast slowly.
When your partner is teased enough then and only then do you get to actually touch their sexy parts.
She should have a lot of sexual tension at this point so even the lightest touch might make them moan.
Spice things up
After some time, you can take things to the next level, you can use your finger inside her, stimulate her clitoris with your hand or give her oral sex. It is also possible to enjoy multiple sensation at once, if you want. Just suggest your partner to help a little. For example she can touch her own clitoris while you penetrate her vagina
“It’s important that you touch the erogenous zones for a woman. Massage her buttocks, legs, go down to her feet, kiss her on the neck.
– Alma
Then ask her to lie on her back. Suck her nipples, kiss her…”
Maybe use toys
Depending if you and your partner like them, but adding toys can be a good way to continue an erotic massage. It can be just some object to tease or a vibrator to make things even more crazy.
Finish
If you’ve done everything right, there’s a high chance that she will orgasm after all of this build-up; after that, she’ll feel very relaxed. It is a good idea to join her for a cuddle session.
After your sexy massage
You may want to cuddle for a little while or take a bath or warm shower together. Of course, a lot of people would want to follow up with more sexual action, and an erotic massage is the perfect way to make someone relaxed and aroused for that.
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I tried these advices on my girl yesterday, she gaves me the greatest blowjob ever to thank me back. 10/10 would recommend