Hey, ladies!
Do you want another intimate topic to chat about? Today, we’re diving deep into a subject that, trust me, can seem a bit overwhelming at first but is oh-so-worth the adventure: Choosing your first sex toy. Oh, the memories! Let me spill the beans on my personal journey, so hopefully, yours can be a tad bit smoother. I present you the complete guide to buy your first intimate toy.
We will talk about price, sexttoy material, where to buy etc.
Why buying a first sex toy?
You should ask yourself what makes you want to try to find a sex toy. Is it out of curiosity? To enhance partner play? To explore a specific sensation? Knowing your motivation can really help narrow down the choices.
Maybe you saw them in a porn movie, or maybe your friend talked to you about her favorite toy.
Some toys are discrete and may suit better to your personality or the use you want from it than other more “kinky” accessory. Other toys help you find and stimulate your G-spot because of their shape.
Start simple, Sweetie
I remember when I went to choose my first toy, I was thinking that bigger is better. You can’t imagine how was I wrong! You absolutely should start small and simple, especially if you are new to this. You can always choose another after to add to your collection.
A simple, elegant toy that don’t “bother” you just by looking at it is a good choice. It needs to be an abject you enjoy seeing and using.
Do some research
Don’t be shy, most of us have been there and are more than willing to share our insights.
The world of sex toys is vast, trust me! I spent countless hours browsing online forums, reading reviews, and even joining a few women’s groups to get recommendations.
Look for reviews
Don’t forget that we talk about intimacy and pleasure, and even if testimony is often the best to gather information, keep in mind that women are all different and will have different needs. But sex toy reviews are the best to get a true testimony about someone who used them.
Sex toy material is important
Listen, just like you wouldn’t buy a sweater without checking its material, the same goes for sex toys. Silicone, glass, stainless steel – they all have their perks. I personally started with silicone because of its soft feel and body-safe properties. Steel is also good but it can feel “cold” if you don’t warm it up before But always, always go for non-porous materials for hygiene reasons.
Price for a first sex toy
My first toy wasn’t the most expensive but it did the job! I recommend not skipping too much on quality because safety is still the most important. But there are no reason to spend a lot on a first sex toy.
Vibrations
If you want to try vibrations sensation, then you’ll search for a good vibrator. Remember that they are not all created equal. There is a lot to consider and some toy have multiple setting to try and play with. Some produces deep vibrations while others do more intense fast movements.
Read our article to find the perfect first vibrator to buy.
Find the right Shop
You should search for where to buy carefully. If you don’t feel comfortable, you won’t ask for any advice and probably will miss a lot of info from the employees.
I went to a women-friendly store for my first purchase, and it made a world of difference. The staff were knowledgeable, approachable, and made me feel super at ease.
So, for a first sex toy…
At the end of the day, searching your first sex toy is just as much as discovering about yourself as about the toy itself. You’ll use this opportunity to learn more about your body, what you like, what you don’t, and how you can take control of your own pleasure.
The most important thing for you to remember is that it’s all about YOU. About what makes you feel good.
Stay playful and empowered! 💋