Because just controlling their vibe isn’t enough—you want to make them beg for it.
Long-distance relationships suck. But long-distance sex toy play? That’s a whole different kind of pleasure.
If you’ve already picked out your app-controlled vibrator or interactive stroker (hello Lovense Lush, Kiiroo, or We-Vibe), it’s time to go beyond the basics. This is your guide to turning your next virtual date into a dripping, moaning, cum-worthy experience neither of you will forget.
From surprise vibe attacks to orgasm control games, here are 7 dirty, creative ways to make that distance kinky as hell.
Don’t know which toys to buy first? Here’s a guide for you to help you choose.
1. 💦 The Orgasm Control Power Trip
Forget “just” remote control—this is about domination. One partner holds the app. The other? Completely helpless, toy buzzing away between their thighs, every orgasm in the hands of someone miles away.
Here’s how to make it irresistible:
- Set the scene. Video on. Lube up. Toy in. No hands.
- Give your partner control, but only if they earn it. Dirty talk required.
- When they edge you, you say thank you.
- If they deny you, you beg.
- If they make you cum? You scream their name.
Want to go deeper? Add a “training” element. Maybe they make you wear the vibe for hours while working, teasing you randomly until your pussy is soaked or your cock’s twitching under the desk.
🖤 Kink twist: Add a rule: you’re not allowed to remove the toy until they say so. Even if you’re dripping.
2. 🔥 Erotic Audio + Vibe Sync = Literal Fucking Fire
Got a Vibease Esthesia or any toy with audiobook sync? Welcome to the dirtiest storytime ever.
Here’s the move:
- Record yourself reading their favorite fantasy—something filthy. “I slide your toy inside you…slowly. Then I tell you to keep it there while I edge you for 20 minutes. You whimper. I don’t care.”
- Upload it, sync it, and let them listen with the toy buzzing in perfect rhythm to your words.
- Bonus? Whisper their name as they cum. Let it pulse through their core.
Can’t record? Send them a handpicked erotic audiobook. Add a custom playlist. Make it a whole evening. Trust me—when that voice syncs with the toy and their thighs start trembling, you’ll have them wrapped around your finger.
3. 😈 Public Vibe Play (Yes, Even on Zoom)
There’s something irresistibly nasty about being teased in public. Whether it’s brunch, a bookstore, or during a boring Zoom call, public play is adrenaline-pumping filth.
Here’s the setup:
- Insert panty vibe or plug before heading out (Lovense Ferri, Vibease, or Lush are perfect).
- Your partner holds the app. You text them a photo of where you are—Starbucks, the laundromat, the elevator.
- They buzz you on and off randomly while you try to keep a straight face.
- You send voice notes after each session: “You made me squirt in the changing room, you bastard.”
💋 Want to really make them ache? Schedule a dinner date via video. Under the table? Your vibe’s already in. Their job? Tease you until you can’t even speak between bites.
4. 💻 Virtual Strip + Orgasm Denial Show
Set up your camera. Wear something that makes you feel like a sex goddess—a tight black dress, lace panties, thigh highs. Light a candle. Put on your sexiest playlist.
But instead of cumming together, tease the fuck out of each other.
Your moves:
- Strip slowly, touching everywhere except the toy.
- Let them control the vibe but turn it off every time they stroke themselves without permission.
- Tell them what you want them to do: “Edge me. Don’t you dare let me cum yet.”
- The show ends when you both earn it. Or when someone gives in, begging.
🎥 Power move: Use the We-Vibe video call mode or screen mirror your vibe app so they can watch you respond in real-time as they play conductor.
5. 🔐 Tease Task Games (Also Known As: Obey Me, Slut)
Bring D/s into the mix with a day-long pleasure task game. Your partner sends you a list of dirty dares to do with your toy—and you complete each one like a good little toy.
Example list:
- “Wear your toy while folding laundry. Film a 30-second moan clip if I make you cum.”
- “Edge yourself 3 times before work. Record your orgasm denial face.”
- “Watch porn for 15 minutes. Hands tied. If you finish before I say, no cumming for 3 days.”
When they complete a task? Reward them with a video, a new toy, or a scheduled cum session.
🧠 Want to go full game mode? Build a points system:
- 1 task = 5 points
- 10 points = orgasm
- Lose points for breaking rules. Spankings may apply.
6. 🎥 Interactive Porn + Toy Sync = Virtual Fuckfest
Here’s where tech meets pure fuck energy. Most smart toys (especially Lovense and Kiiroo) now connect directly to adult content sites. That means the strokes, the vibrations, the thrusts—all sync in real time with your favorite porn.
Your steps:
- Choose a scene. Something hot, immersive, and aligned with your kink.
- Connect your device via FeelConnect, Lovense Media Player, or compatible platform.
- Watch. Feel. Explode.
🖤 Add some flavor:
- You control your partner’s toy while they watch.
- You both watch the same scene while synced, then video call after to describe how you came.
Want it really personal? Record your own video and sync your vibe movements to it. Send it to your partner with the toy control code.
They’ll be begging to return the favor.
7. 🌅 The Orgasm Alarm Clock
Who needs coffee when you can start the day dripping?
Use your app’s scheduling feature to set up a surprise toy session that starts the second their alarm goes off. No warning. No prep. Just a soft, slow buzz between their legs, reminding them how much you crave them.
Here’s how to nail it:
- Set it to start 5 minutes before wake-up time.
- Keep it slow at first… then gradually increase intensity.
- Text them right after: “Did I wake you… or make you?”
🥵 Want extra chaos? Send them a photo of you masturbating the night before, holding their toy in your hand.
That orgasm? It won’t wait till after breakfast.
Wrapping It Up (In Sweat and Lube)
If you’ve already invested in an app-controlled toy, don’t let it collect dust in your drawer. These 7 long-distance sex toy play ideas are your blueprint for making every mile between you drip with tension, desire, and explosive release.
Because love is powerful—but filthy imagination is what makes the distance disappear.
